With that being said, I have a serious problem. I've read 1 Cor. 14 over and over and I cannot get over how most churches who believe the same as me just disregard these instructions coming from Paul!
Do not speak in tongues during a worship gathering, unless there is an interpretation. I must admit. I have never been in church where this is the rule. Unbelievers are scared and believers aren't edified. Yes, speaking w/God in an intimate way is important - but not in front of everyone.
There have been some complaints and I think they're right on.